
May 7th is Sexual Pain Awareness Day.
Pain during sexual activity (dyspareunia) is a highly prevalent yet underrecognized condition. Estimates suggest rates of 20–40% among women of reproductive age, 60–80% at six months postpartum, and up to 40% during menopause. Among women with chronic illnesses, prevalence is even higher. In men, the absence of standardized definitions and the relative lack of research limit precise estimates, though available data suggest rates of 1.8–12%.
Despite its high prevalence, dyspareunia remains insufficiently addressed, even in 2026. Many individuals do not seek evaluation due to stigma, embarrassment, or the belief that pain during sex is normal or untreatable. Those who do seek care may encounter minimization or misdiagnosis, often requiring consultations with multiple providers before receiving appropriate assessment and management.
Aetiologies vary across life stages and involve both physical and psychosocial components. In addition to somatic factors, dyspareunia is frequently associated with anxiety, depression, shame, reduced self-esteem, and relational distress. Even when physical symptoms improve, psychological sequelae may persist, underscoring the need for multidisciplinary care integrating medical, psychological, and sex therapy approaches.
In light of the scope and impact of this condition, we want to join the Israel SPAD steering group initiative to designate May 7th as Sexual Pain Awareness Day (SPAD), aimed at increasing public and professional awareness, reducing stigma, and promoting access to evidence-based care.
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