A fear of semen may be attributed to several other conditions. One common reason is related to obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). Specifically, the contamination subcategory of OCD, in which obsessions (unwanted thoughts, feelings, urges, etc.) and compulsions (actions taken to relieve distress from obsessions) center on germs, illness, or contamination. These compulsions are fueled by disgust, which is a defensive reflex the body uses to avoid contamination. However, with OCD, that disgust is exacerbated by obsessions.

In this case, triggers for compulsions may be caused by situations involving beds, sheets, sexual encounters, or anything that may have semen on it. They may also be triggered by liquids that look like semen, particularly in the bedroom or during sexual activity. This can result in avoidant behaviors or involuntary physical reactions that can interrupt or interfere with sexual activity or sexual pleasure. For example, vomiting during oral sex.

Implications For Sexual Health

Such behaviors or obsessions can cause sexual dysfunction. For example, involuntary muscle contractions as result of a contamination obsession around semen can occur upon penetrative sex (vaginally or anally). This can cause pelvic floor muscles to contract and cause sexual pain disorders such as vaginismus.

Additionally, involuntary avoidant behaviors like eye closing or dissociating can cause arousal disorders. A large portion of sexual arousal is psychological, so blocking out those sensations or choosing not to react can lead to issues like erectile dysfunction or vaginal dryness. Erectile dysfunction occurs when the penis cannot sustain an erection long enough for satisfactory sex, and vaginal dryness occurs when the vagina does not self-lubricate during sexual activity. Avoidant behaviors may also cause issues with male orgasm, such as anorgasmia (lack of orgasm) or anejaculation (orgasm without ejaculation) since avoiding ejaculation is imperative for semen-related contamination OCD.

Finally, the definition of sexual health involves the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences. For those with semen-related obsessions and compulsions, this may not be possible. Many with this subtype of OCD may avoid sexual activity altogether. This avoidance, coupled with other sexual dysfunction, can cause sexual distress and hinder overall sexual health.

Conclusion

Ultimately, a semen phobia may be encompassed by a fear of overall contamination which is fueled by OCD obsessions. In turn, compulsions may cause adverse effects on overall sexual health, including sexual dysfunctions like vaginismus, anorgasmia, and erectile dysfunction. Compulsions may also cause sexual distress through avoidant behaviors and overall disgust. If you are experiencing sexual distress due to OCD, it’s important to speak with a mental health professional.

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