Peyronie’s disease (PD) is a sexual health condition that affects the penis, causing it to become curved or bent due to the development of scar tissue. This curvature can make sexual intercourse difficult or uncomfortable for the individual with the condition. But what about the sexual partner? Will they be able to feel or notice the changes caused by PD during sex?

Research published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine sheds light on this topic. The study compared the experiences of men with PD and their female sexual partners to understand how PD affects both parties during sexual intimacy.

The study found that while both men with PD and their partners may experience difficulties during sex, such as decreased frequency of intercourse and discomfort with certain positions, there are differences in how they perceive the condition. Men with PD tend to be more bothered by the physical appearance of their penis and the presence of PD during intercourse compared to their partners.

So, will your partner be able to feel or notice the curvature or other changes caused by Peyronie's disease during sex? The answer varies depending on the severity of the penile curvature and other factors.

• Severity of Curvature: In cases where the curvature is severe, your partner may be able to feel the difference during intercourse. This is because a severe curvature may affect the angle and depth of penetration, potentially causing discomfort or difficulty for both partners with certain sexual positions.
• Physical Sensitivity: Depending on their level of genital sensitivity, some partners may notice the curvature or changes in texture or firmness of the penis during sex. This could be felt as a bend or lump along the shaft of the penis.
• Emotional Impact: Beyond the physical aspects, Peyronie’s disease can also have emotional consequences for both partners. Men with PD may feel self-conscious or embarrassed about their condition, which can affect their confidence and intimacy with their partner. On the other hand, partners may feel concerned or worried about their partner’s well-being and may experience anxiety about worsening their partner’s condition during sex.

It is essential to communicate openly with your partner about Peyronie’s disease and its effects on your sexual intimacy. Discuss any discomfort or changes you experience during sex and explore alternative positions or techniques that may be more comfortable for both of you.

If Peyronie’s disease is causing significant difficulties or distress in your relationship, seeking support from a health care provider or counselor who specializes in sexual health may be beneficial. They can provide guidance, resources, and treatment options to help improve your sexual intimacy as a couple.

In conclusion, Peyronie’s disease can impact sexual intimacy for both men and their partners. While partners may notice the curvature or changes caused by PD during sex, the extent of their awareness may vary depending on factors such as the severity of the curvature and individual sensitivity. Open communication and support are essential for navigating the challenges posed by Peyronie’s disease and maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

References:

• Farrell, M. R., Ziegelmann, M. J., Bajic, P., & Levine, L. A. (2020). Peyronie’s Disease and the Female Sexual Partner: A Comparison of the Male and Female Experience. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 17(12), 2456–2461. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2020.08.010